Dr. Ned Hallowell (An A.D.H.D. Sufferer) On A.D.H.D. And Marriage
A.D.H.D. In Adults: The Full Scoop
Check out this 4 part video by Pera. It's not as good as her book, but it's a good bullet-point short course.
(This final "Part 4" summary of ADD's "Top 10 Relationship Challenges" is spot on.)